Lessons

Mark Twain once said, “Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness”. Recently participating in a study abroad trip, I can appreciate how true this statement is. Leaving my own country behind and embracing another culture in Scandinavia for two weeks required a lot of heart-work, preparation, and open-mindedness. Nevertheless, because of my willingness to learn and discover, I know I returned with life-impacting knowledge from my experiences there.

            Interacting with the host culture in Scandinavia opened my eyes to many issues and concerns, particularly sustainability. It made me step back and reflect on my own life and realize how much I take for granted sometimes. If I want to be a global citizen and make a positive impression on the world, it is significant to consider whether or not I am responsible with my possessions and resources. Visiting these Nordic countries encouraged me to be more considerate of the needs of others.

By being more attentive and thoughtful, I was reminded, as human beings, people all over have similarities. No matter where we live, we all are confronted with emotions of love, frustration, sadness, joy, and pain. During my 15 days abroad, I came in contact with numerous transparent individuals. They willingly shared their passions, concerns, dreams, and heartaches with me. People need someone in their lives that will listen to them, hear their heart, give encouragement, and impart empathy.

While compassion and connection are important, conflict and differences in communication can be positive. I had some interesting conversations with those of dissimilar views. Rather than being biased, I tried to make sense of what they had to say. Just like a kaleidoscope, looking at things from a new perspective allowed me to grasp information in a way I had not been able to before.

Often, in order to be mindful of concepts and obstacles from a certain viewpoint, it requires slowing down, being silent, and reflecting. On this trip I was afforded the opportunity to soak in my surroundings and value life itself. I noticed details in nature I would normally not think twice about. I believe it has fueled an inner sensitivity and energy to be myself and benefit others with my talents and gifts.

Exercising discernment and looking introspectively, I develop insight and an appetite to make a difference. I encountered this personally by helping a man from Columbia with his English. In return, he taught me words and phrases in Norwegian and Spanish. This occasion revitalized and excited my passion to teach and help others learn a foreign language.

            The greatest realization learned from traveling abroad was the fact that I can make a difference in my community, my country, and my world. I may only be one person, but I am unique and have something to offer others. I want to take advantage of what I was exposed to and learned on this trip. I desire to impart these manifestations at TCU and to individuals in the future. If more people are willing to share their problems and dilemmas, as well as their resources, I am confident the world could be a much better place. As my friend Michael put it best, “I am happy to know that there is at least one other person…destined to care about things outside of the U.S. Realizing we are not alone is a wonderful thing”.